I think a lot of the inverter generations on the market are good, quiet and dual fuel is really nice, the Westinghouse Onan, Honda, Champion, even the Harbor Freight Predator.
Size depends on what you want to run all at the same time, how you like to camp, setup or power available. Glamping? Boondocking a lot or just in case of emergencies? Just to charge the batteries? Lithium batteries and how long and often you need to run it? Can you run some stuff on propane? Then where are you going to carry it. Do you have to lift it in and out of the truck bed? How much solar do you have and battery bank?
We have a Harbor Freight Predator 3500/3000 4 years old, has worked great the 4 times we needed it in emergencies. We do not have solar. I don't like the fact that it is gas only but that is the only one we could find at the time we bought it.
Fridge and H2O heater can run on propane. It weighs about 65# or so and the Wife and I can lift it in and out of the truck bed if necessary but most of the time it lives in the truck bed. In the heat of the summer it comes out of the truck bed and lives underneath the 5th wheel overhang. It' too hot in the 100* summer months to leave it in the truck bed, gasoline and excessive heat in a covered truck bed is not good. It will run everything in our 5th wheel, but not all at the same time.
We just turn things on and off when we need them and don't overload the genny.